Run-In with Robocop


Friday night was ladies night with some friends.
I'm so glad we were all dressed up and looking smokin' hot, because guess who I ran into?

Robocop.  But the title already told you that.
And I bet you can guess from my picture that he was with a woman.

I should mention that he was asking for another chance two weeks ago.
Luckily I'm very happy with my non-relationship and didn't fall into that again.

Anyway, seeing his date got me to thinking about some superficial things.
How he always told me if I lost too much weight he wouldn't be attracted to me anymore.  The woman he was with was chunky, maybe my current size.  It always bothered me that he said he only liked bigger women.  

Like what am I, just a size?
I am more than my size.  I am smart and funny, and I like to think I am pretty regardless of the extra weight I'm carrying around, and definitely not BECAUSE of it for sure.




Anyway, I feel like I'm rambling, and if I said what I really felt about Friday night, I'd be a jerk, so I'm just going to leave it with a few pictures from the night and let it go.

Downtown Raleigh

I also ran into two cousins! 
This was a much more welcomed meeting!






Comments

  1. UnknownOctober 6, 2013 at 8:55 AM

    I'm so proud of you for being the better person. And you r moreare than a size... You are so much more than just a number. Never forget it! You look like you had a blast!

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